I appreciate your attempt in giving me advice, but it sounds like you are having the same or similar problems(?) You can create a backup such as you noted and your ISP can restore it, you just need to tell them your database to restore over, and in my case pay $5.
What I am looking for is a process to be able to move my database, which includes tables, views, and stored procs, and the relationships among these objects, so I'm not sure what you mean by the big question being which tables due to the obvious fact that it would be all of them, and all views, and all SPs. The DTSWizard is a utility to make this feature backward compatable to SQL 2K, but I'm starting in SQL 2K5.
What needs to be done is to install SQL Servers Integration Service (SSIS) and run the SQL Server Business Intelligence Development Studio to create the 2K5 compatable package. What I am running into appears to be permission issues, such as you would experience when trying to copy your database to the remote ISP. Short of scripting the database, or having the ISP restore the database FTP'd to them, I haven't seen any reasonable way to manage the export of my SQL 2005 database, which I could do in SQL 2000. Once I determine a way to do so, though, I will post the solution.
Thanks!
John