I have been trying to skin this menu for days now and it has been the biggest pain in the butt.

For the longest time It was not recognizing my CSS then I added this tidbit SeparateCss="true" to the object and it accepted it but then it seperated the drop down menu by about 300 pixles so I had to add a -300px margin to the menu item. Now the z-index is all screwd up and wont seem to fix it self and the .MainMenu_MenuBreak seems to do squat. 

Is there any good examples/tutorials on skinning the MENU? 

http://www.skinningtoolkit.com Does not Help, because the class dont always target what it says.
http://www.thinkofdesign.com/resources/dotnetnuke-skinning-reference/ Also does not help for the same reasons.

Thanks

 Very new to DNN, so this would replace the standard DNN menu and I will be able to change the order/parents and add/remove links through DNN?