i'm no xsl pro, but understand the basics enough to add to this.
i basically modified the sample you posted and got it to be able to embed the youtube clips into the page. i verified this works. i took out the more free-form item/description elements since people may or may not want those in. i verified this works on a testing dnn 4.5.5 install.
here's the modified version:
<?xml version="1.0"?>
<xsl:stylesheet version="1.0"
xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"
xmlns:xsl="http://www.w3.org/1999/XSL/Transform">
<!-- xmlns:xsl="http://www.w3.org/TR/WD-xsl" -->
<!-- RSSv2YouTube XSL by Phil 'iwonder' Guerra -->
<xsl:output method="html" indent="yes"/>
<xsl:param name="TITLE"/>
<xsl:template match="rss">
<xsl:apply-templates select="channel" />
<xsl:apply-templates select="channel/item" />
</xsl:template>
<xsl:template match="channel">
<strong><a href="{link}" target="_blank"><xsl:value-of select="title"/></a></strong><br/>
<!-- <font size="-3"> -->
<!-- <xsl:value-of select="description" disable-output-escaping="yes"/> -->
<!-- <strong>Language: </strong><xsl:value-of select="language"/><br/> -->
<!-- (<xsl:value-of select="copyright"/>) -->
<!-- <strong>WebMaster: </strong><xsl:value-of select="webMaster"/> -->
<!-- </font>-->
<hr/>
</xsl:template>
<xsl:template match="channel/item">
<strong><a href="{link}" target="_blank">
<xsl:value-of select="title"/>
</a></strong>
<br/>
<font size="-3">(<xsl:value-of select="pubDate"/>)</font>
<br/>
<!-- <xsl:value-of select="description" disable-output-escaping="yes"/>
<br/>-->
<xsl:if test="enclosure/@type='application/x-shockwave-flash'">
<object width="{media:thumbnail/@width}" height="{media:thumbnail/@height}"><param name="movie" value="{enclosure/@url}"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><embed src="{enclosure/@url}" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="{media:thumbnail/@width}" height="{media:thumbnail/@height}"></embed></object>
<br/>
<a href="{link}" target="_blank">open in browser</a>
<br/>
</xsl:if>
<hr/>
</xsl:template>
</xsl:stylesheet>