The Notification works so in 3.x version, we changed it by userrequests.  In old versions the poster di not get a notfication, but this was wanted by mostly users.  Think we want not re-change this. 

Mitch,

I obviously couldn't say it better myself.  Mathias, I cannot for the life of me understand why you would want extra email cluttering your inbox.  You did the action, why do you need to be notified about it?  Definately a cool and ambitious module, but some of the little details are going to drive away my users. (things like not being able to post the embed pics from all the major picture hosting sites, not being able to include a youtube video without a bunch of hassle in the html, not getting notifications properly, and the occasional tendancy for the forum to just lock the users out and they have to go through and reset their notification status).  I am worried that I am just going to drive my users to my competitors...

I don't know how.  Iam not so far with the FCK editor provider.  Sorry.